Talk to Me

 We are created in His image!

Jesus is the Living Word through whom all thing are made.

One of the biggest problems the disciples had was talking over Jesus.  At Pentecost the Holy Spirit gave the disciples the ability to preach.  The Holy Spirit inspired and anointed the writers of scriptures so that we all could have the Word in our hands.

God is a communicating God!  We are a communicating people, yet we are so bad at it.

Communication, dialogue, discourse, conversation; we could all improve in this capacity!

Arrogance, self-absorption, emotions take over and our mouths run on autopilot and the ears stop working!

To ensure proper and effective communication there must be a balance between talking and listening.

1.  Explore the others point of view.
2.  Learn each others language.
3.  Intentions don't matter unless they are wrapped in kindness.
   
   
   "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."  James 1:19 (NIV)
   
   
   Know the definitions of terms used-- yours and those of the person you are communicating with.
   
   
   Tone is important-- a harsh response follows harsh words.
   
   
   Must have 1) unity, must be on the same page; 2) intimacy, a feeling of knowing and being known.  These both rely on communications skills!
   
   
   Use these communications techniques:
   1. Lock eyes!  Be seen to be understood.
   2. Listen up!  Strive to hear.
   3. Lean in!  Posture, body language is important.
   4. Loving response! Be kind, be caring.
   5. Linger there!  Communication takes time.
   
   
    We need a speed bump between the brain and the mouth!
   
   
   
   
    Pastor Johnnie Blair
   Sunday morning